UPDATE!!! Ok so, we've been been together since last Friday after i met her at the station. I'll be honest and say she is a bigger lady than i thought but you know what, that is just more to cuddle. We haven't got a double bed yet ( that's on it's way). The sex ( in our own way) is great. I have a bit of an ED problem but there are other ways and she had a smile on her face and KY jelly is on the shopping list so that can't be bad. TMI ....? hahaWe are still coming to terms with how to say things to each other without the other looking askance but thats no biggi. She snores but she already told me that and i find it endearing. I'm more laid back and i do things in my own time and she's the opposite ( the ying to my yang) but i need a kick up the butt now and then but as long as she leaves me thinking that i'm still the boss then all's well. So summing up. It feels really good together , we are ( i would say) pretty compatible, we have the same goals ( to make a lovely house and have a nice life together) and any teething problems can be ironed out and hey hohere we go. SO TO ALL THOSE LONELY GUYS OUT THERE. GET OUT AND FIND SOMEONE. If only for the jelly and ice cream :-)