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You be exactly who you are and he needs to be exactly who he is...you cannot change eachother....if there is enough in common - without resentment...there could be a future. If he is not treating you like you are #1 -more important than the band.,
I would not expect that to change even when the band is gone....he'll be searching for the next band because he loves it. Does not mean he does not love you - unless you pressure him to quit something he loves.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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