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Originally Posted by ptangptang
My online girlfriend is moving in with me in 3 weeks time. People on here know me so i won't lie. I'm 57 never had a relationship and obviously never lived with a woman apart from my mum ( and no she's not a replacement mother figure.) We are very compatible and with give and take on both sides i don't see any reason why it shouldn't work out. OK so any advice, tips, thoughts, ideas appreciated. Any questions i'll answer honestly. Don't see any stigma about admitting to being a virgin so guys if i can cum out ( she also knows i like ABBA) at 57 and into a loving relationship then so can you ,never mind what age you are. We all need to give and receive love. It's never too late. OK over to you guys and gals.
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diplomacy is key, it is important that you realize it will no longer be only about "you" so to speak..me becomes "we" THIS IS VERY,VERY IMPORTANT. you will get to find out quite a bit about each other very soon now...you will have your "honeymoon phase" which is what you guys are in now(where neither of you can do any wrong!) then in a lil while reality will kick in..not a bad thing, just inevitability, this is where the test will come in, each of you have different "habits" or "quirks" the two of you will need to get used to.
as long as both of you are open to communication and have a great sense of humor..the two of you will be fine. any disputes need to be dealt with right away so they don't fester and harbor resentment.communication and understanding are major keys to make things work & the realization that each of you now have a responsibility to make the other member happy. It's wonderful that you don't have any old, bad relationship habits to break..so a huge advantage to you!!
hang in there and good luck!
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