I'm very confused and frustrated about my sexuality. I can acknowledge that some guys are attractive, but I've never had a true, heart wrenching, butterflies in the stomach crush on a guy. Men just seem so out of the question for me- I'm not sure whether that's because I may view them as one dimensional and generalise them. On the other hand, I've always felt more connected and closer to women; and recently I've been forming strong infatuation like feelings on famous gay women, such as Tegan and Sara etc. So this means I'm gay right? Well to make it confusing, while I feel closer and have even felt 'crush' like feelings for some of my female friends- I have never had any real sexual thoughts to go along with these feelings. Whenever I sort of imagine anything sexual happening, it just seems strange and I dismiss it immediately. I have in past imagined sexual things happening with men and it sat easier with me. Any thoughts?