""""""""Fertik says he offers "a PR service for the everyday person," charging a fee that can be as low as $10 monthly, for a thorough search of Internet references. The "destroy" part starts with a polite letter and can occasionally lead to threatened legal action. (Generally, website operators are not liable for offensive postings.)""""""""""

so it really is as bad as i was beginning to suspect..........sigh......big sigh....................