Hi im sorry to hear about the situation. I know whats its like to feel that way. In my opinion i think that your aunt might have some issues inside and her coping stratage is to take it out on someone else. I could be wrong but thats just my opinion. My dad is the same way with me until recently when i had a baby and didnt tell him i was pregnant until a couple days before i had it. Im not saying you should do that but i think that you should maybe try to find a time and invite maybe a neighbor or anyone that you trust and have them come over and sit down with you and your aunt and you should tell her what your feelings are.