So I just joined yesterday & did a brief intro but I didn't go into much detail. (My therapist pointed out that I do that when I feel uncomfortable talking about a subject.) I mentioned in my first post that my sister had died. The main issue that I'm having right now is with my mother. She's been living with my sister for the past 6 years, basically rent-free and unemployed. My sister was never happy with her living there but she was too nice to ever make her leave. Now that my sister is gone, my mother has her sights set in my direction. I've made it clear that she can't stay with me & my husband until she gets a job so that she can get her own place. But it's all met with annoyance and frustration. She even sent me a scathing email complaining that I really hurt her feeling because I didn't want to take financial responsibility for her. She's only 62 years old and I do plan on eventually taking her in when my husband & I are done with school, but we simply don't have the space or the money to take on a 3rd person.
Can someone direct me to a forum for dealing with family issues like this?
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