Parley, I donīt know if you can identify with my sister or something and makes you feel like you have defend her.
Your response makes angry, if Iīm being honest.
I donīt have anything against finding happiness in little things, I have something against in the way this happiness is portrayed to me, as it doesnīt seem quite genuine.
I agree that she is "trying" to be very grown up and doing all the right things "grown ups" do..
"Hoorah for your Therapist agreeing with you! " Are you trying to make fun of me here?
Please lets stick to being respectful on this forum, okay?
"I do know that if my sisters couldn't accept me for who I am ~ I'd leave respectable messages as well."
Are you saying that Iīm not accepting her for "who she is"?
Iīm telling you, that she has changed intensely, and that it doesnīt seem healthy to me. I am concerned and sad that we canīt have a connection anymore because sheīs not willing to be "personal" with me anymore.
It has nothing to do with accepting who she is at the core....
Please, if youīre going to be rude, donīt reply to my threads.
If you have a different point of view than me of the situation thatīs okay.
But it can be brought upon in respectful manner.
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Originally Posted by Parley
I don't know your sister but maybe therapy worked for her. Maybe her therapist helped her find happiness in those "little things" that seem to bother you.
You admitted your mother was an alcoholic and perhaps she is no longer playing "lets pretend mom's the best."
I'm not trying to be rude but maybe your sister is trying to grow up. Maybe she did and has changed her mind on her studies. If not~ I wish her the best.
Hoorah for your Therapist agreeing with you!
I do know that if my sisters couldn't accept me for who I am ~ I'd leave respectable messages as well.
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