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Old May 13, 2014, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Patagonia View Post
If my H would ever figure out how suicidal I am He'd take the kids away from me just on his own. I'm usually not very present & dissociate easily. My T's worry about me staying home w/ my kids alone. I do the absolute bare minimum to take care of them. Some mom I am

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Maybe, that's a huge factor, in all this??? Wouldn't it be wonderful, to have a husband, who actually 'gets it?'. And support you, in your time of need?
Is there more than just internal pressure, in the scope of parenting? So, you rest while your kid watches TV. If you had a neurological illness like Lupus, Fibro, MS, etc....would it make you feel less of a mom??

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