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May 13, 2014, 05:14 PM
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Member Since: Feb 2012
Location: From Egypt, journeying in America
Posts: 244
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I understand your concerns...
I had relationships with two boys before & both of them left me after a couple of months because they couldn't tolerate my OCD. I think that spending time together with your fiance a lot before getting married, even if more than a year, is very important so that you give him enough time to judge whether he's willing to cope with your illness, & endure the hard task of helping you get better 
As for having children, I don't want to seem selfish or anything, but I'm actually planning to try adopt children (if nobody marries me & I have the chance to bear children), because I can't bear the idea of not enjoying having children & raising them up & loving them. Even when I'm walking in the street or in transportation, I can't help it but stop, kiss, & play with any child that I see in front of me.
I think that the love I might give & find with any child that I adopt will be something so beautiful & magical that might even give me the will & motivation needed to heal & cope successfully with my OCD
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