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Old May 13, 2014, 07:52 PM
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"The next time the guy should make all that effort in the beginning, not you."....

I do not think that the man should make ALL the efforts.

If initially he wants to meet me bad enough ...and his car is in better shape than mine..I would want him to come see me. As we got to know each other in person..and I felt safe with him and safe with my car... I would meet him half way
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