I love my current boyfriend and he's great to me but lately since I've been becoming more depressed and angry I don't feel like talking to him. At those times I want to be left alone, however he wants me to talk to him how I feel but I don't want to talk to him every single time I'm upset. After awhile I've been beginning to feel like I'm relying on him and I've been noticing it. Now I want to break this vicious cycle, I want him to help me yes and support me but he can't save me every time I'm upset. In the past I always went to all my boyfriend's every single time I was sad and never dealt with them on my own. Now I want to deal with them on my own. However anytime I'm doing my own thing he ends up questioning me sp what have you done to make yourself feel better? Anytime he ends up mentioning this, I think to myself, "Oh wow thanks for reminding me." He may not mean anything by it, but it's like I sometimes feel like he doesn't think I can do things on my own or that I'm not capable. In the past yes I relied on my past boyfriend's and I did with him for awhile but now I want to become independent and not always rush to him anytime I'm feeling depressed or having a mania moment. It's not up to him to save me and make me feel better every single time. Am I being harsh about this? Yes I love him but anytime I go to him, I feel like I'm becoming a burden on him but he insists me to come to him but for once I'd like to deal with things on my own. I'm really confused here, can you please share you're thoughts with me on this. Him and I have a great relationship regardless but this has been bothering me lately. So what should I do?