Hello Esther.
I hope things are betterfor you at this time. Some therapists do not feel that getting really personally involved with their clients is helpful to their recovery. It could be the case with your therapist. It is a therapists job to help you overcome the neediness not harm you by engaging in your issues. (Does thta make sense?) Perhaps your therapist is aware that getting too personally involved will delay your progress. I frankly feel you have a very good therapist to help you rather that gettin too involved so that you have an objective person that helps you move forward in the future. Please dont try to be to hard on yourself or your therapist, try to vconcentrate on the fact you are getting the therapy you need to help you progress in your life. Take care and good day. Soidhonia