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Old May 14, 2014, 04:07 PM
Anonymous100131
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I don't think it is the man's fault if a relationship is failing and I don't think it is alright for a women to sleep with someone else either. A relationship is an equal thing imo.

I didn't say her weight gain is from low self esteem from the affair, I said low self esteem from being in an unhappy relationship.

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making a conscious effort to not interrupt me when we are talking and to listen to what I have to say.
This is you again saying bad things about your wife!! No wonder she doesn't take care of herself! Did you make an effort to tell her she was beautiful and support her and compliment her, when she was losing weight. And do you listen to her?! considering you went off and f*cked someone else, you don't sound like you are the one putting all the work in to try and make that better!!

You come here saying that you have problems in your marriage and you don't want to brake up the family and asking advice on how to make things better in your marriage and make your wife happy, then you would get my full compassion. But not "I screwed someone else" no sorry ! that is not a good person!

What you have done is paint a picture of your wife, calling her over weight, angry, shouty to her children, not taking proper care of herself (and just then) that she talks too much and doesn't listen. And made out like you are the model father and husband and that it was her fault that you went and betrayed her! Buls*it mate!

you are not assumed to be an asshole, you are being one and everyone can see it!! maybe you should start looking at what a bad husband and father you have been for the sake of getting your d*ck wet and you are still putting it all on her and are on here looking for people to agree that you are the poor victim!

Shame on you!