I think the good thing is that you've recognized this is something that bothers you and so you've opened up in a calm and honest manner. I can only but have respect for that

Like a lot of public platforms - there will be times when what we put out there isn't heard and/or responded too appropriately.

I try not to take it personally and instead remember the reality of the situation. This is a computer screen and i'm typing words someone i don't know will see on their computer screen. I agree that statement can make this process feel somewhat lonelier than it already might - but for me i find it also takes the sting out of any snide remark, nonconstructive criticism etc.

Remember there is the ignore feature on this website which can help you remove users you simply don't wish to see and i believe whole boards can also be gotten rid of in a click. I'm not saying it's a faultless system - in fact the one here could do with specific adjustments, but it's another option open to you.

There are always going to be people who think they're hilarious or think it's ok to treat people as badly as they have been treated. Leave them to their anger and focus on what's more important - yourself.

To quote Colonel Sherman T. Potter; 'It's too big a world to be in competition with everybody else, the only person i need to get better than is the one i am now, and in your case - that's hard enough.'