<<What's the point of building a successful business if it will only close the moment you die? Why buy a home when there's no one to pass it to? Once you are stripped of having any kind of legacy how in the world do you do anything?>>

I honor and respect your grief, and the point of view you have shared. But I will tell you that those views are yours, and not necessarily universal. Many people have used exactly that kind of loss or pain to motivate them for the good.

An example? (And not telling you how YOU should feel, just sharing, since you asked)

Business? The point could be all the jobs and incomes you have created for employees. When you die, you could will it to a trust that funds infertility issues, etc. etc.

Home? Because it will provide happiness and security for you and your husband and whoever you wish to share it with. Not having an infant to care for, you could volunteer to work with children and pass on a legacy to caring to many, many others.

You speak of faith, but don't say which, and I won't assume. But I know of no faith that teaches about leaving a legacy of material things, in fact it's usually just the opposite. Maybe a Holy Book can help you find a way through your pain.

Offered in love and respect, because you asked