I just give it time, but it does scare me when some women come up to me. Yeah I can talk to them, but I'm more than afraid, because how they immediately come up. Dropping some changes like I gotta follow or else. I don't like women who do that, it's very degrading to me, feeling like I have to be a dog as expected because it's required to date her to be rewarded with whatever. I find it silly, I'm not into that. It's my number one fear being locked into something I don't want to be in that's not a relationship, just more codependent like abuse. I treat her like a human if I want to be chivalrous or a gentleman I'll go out my way on my own perogative out of my heart, not that I'm required like it's some law. It's much more enjoyable and respectable with that balance. Above all communication communication communication. I really just require that first.