I shouldn't allow things to bother me so much really, and tomo I will try and take what I need to from this really; in terms of looking at how much I judged harshly and my own standing and denial about things in my life, the love and understanding I extend to another and so on....

I think to constantly question ones self is a good thing and to avoid blaming others can be difficult but the right path ultimately. I don't know if the 'tough love' language I dolled out will help at all. I don't know if it would help me either.

I just found it all very sad to read, as me and him and anybody reading this could tell the outcome=( and blame is just a product of that, and at this point, with him leaving for a happier life-she deserves better imo. We all say and do things we shouldn't tho.

I just hope he sees my point of view as well as I can understand his behaviour.

Peace out xxxx