19 years is a long time to be married. we've been through thick and thin, troubles you name it we got through it.
i've been doing a lot of thinking. i'm sad but i dont think i can go on any more. so much upheaval, so much hurt, so much trouble to be expected. kids will be upset. what do i do. stay in a loveless marriage and put up with it or try my best to manage on my own. my mental state is not good at the moment. i just feel so confused. and sad. i love him but i'm not in love with him, cliche. torn in two. just want to be happy. am i selfishto split this family apart?

jin