Hello.
I am sorry to hear that you re having problems with your daughter. Have you thought about getting professional help for your daughter. Sometimes when girls have low self esteem they will transfer their affection to the father. I feel that your daughter is really struggling at this time with her identity and needs a professional to help her sort out her feelings at this time. Also maybe letting her do more things in the kitchen with you would help as well since she seems to be needing your attention at this time. Her behavior may be due to feeling overwhelmed with life at this time. I hope the best for you take care and good day. Soidhonia