"The truth hurts... but lies do more damage "

I writ that two years ago. I'm still on that page.
I'm supposed to be an Aspie as well, idk though, i've been trying to accept ASD/Aspie for 2 years. I do know what you mean though about the lies.

Why are you always 3 steps behind?
I find having a small social circle, and limiting valuable/important things or tasks to the outer circle, only when necessary, minimizes it a bit.

I actually react pretty bad if I see any form of manipulation or trying to cheat me going on.
Last time, my so called "friend" was trying to tell me what to do, trying to control what I do, next thing I know, he comes storming out the building towards me, unfortunately for him, he just triggered my anger from childhood. Lucky for him, that i've developed better control over it, and didn't slam him so hard into the wall behind, the 2nd and 3rd time. Still dragged him like a rag doll though, round 180 and into car, and then pushed back into wall releasing shirt. If I hadn't seen him not fighting back after that first unexpected slam, not seen his weakness, probably would of caused seriously injured him.

Add some confrontations into the mix, and see what you come up with.
May or may not get some results, but it'll certainly help get you out of your head for a bit, and make a few people in proximity think twice.

You seem like you might have a Narc trait or two, not necessarily a bad thing, so use it dude.