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Originally Posted by hankster
I think you should skype my t. Since he is such a swedophile (is that a word?), you two should be able to work out some arrangement. If you could get him to come out there for vacation, that would be great. I dont think he takes enough time off. We are like Jack Spratt and his wife. He is always working and i am always sleeping. I know this is a ridiculous suggestion, but you never know! 
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That... would be awesome

It doesn't seem possible, sadly, but thank you for the suggestion!
I didn't mention his vacation in my session today, but we spent most of the time talking about needs, and wants, and how to tell the difference, and why I expect to be abandoned by everybody I get close to, and how I am mortally afraid of saying things that will make him dislike me... so maybe in a week or two I'll muster the courage to say that I feel as if he is abandoning me when he goes on holiday, and ask if we could work on a contingency plan. Last year, I remember that he asked me whether there was anything he could do to make the break any easier, and I said that there wasn't. I should think about that now, while there's still time. so I don't automatically say the same thing if the subject arises. Problem is, I'm not sure what I could suggest.