I have been doing a lot of research on aspie traits as I am putting together the information for my H's pdoc who was also mine before I left my H 7 years ago.....but I have been trying to figure out what destroyed the marriage & WHY my H's behaviors were as odd as they were.....& looking into the aspie traits is the only thing that has 100% fit......even though he's now 62 years old.......

One thing that aspies can do is to think of opinion as fact.....whether someone elses or their own......& when the opinion (what they think is fact) is WRONG.....then it comes across as a lie......I felt through all the 33 years I lived with him that I was constantly being lied to.....either by telling me things that in FACT were WRONG....or by NOT saying anything at all & not telling me about serious things that I needed to know....something it seems he was unable to distinguish between.

So yes, aspies get caught by lies....but they can do their share of their own unintentionally I'm sure. Unfortunately it doesn't make the lie any less hurtful or harmful.