So, is taking responsibility now defined as complying?

On the one hand, I hate strong arm tactics. On the other, I have to say you'd probably be better off if you'd stay on the meds and work with your mental health providers. They're probably tired of the back and forth with you, but then that's what they signed on for when they went into mental health IMO. Giving a person a bunch of rules and telling them they're fired from therapy if they fail to comply isn't all that helpful IMO.