Also, I understand your concern about her being pregnant now too. It's almost like a rebound when a person gets involved in a different relationship to fill a void when they should really be exploring that void more before they choose to move forward with anything else that is a big commitment.

Unfortunately our brains often do push for embracing the one thing we should step back from and instead work through in healthier ways. Well, you can't really stop her, unfortunately, and hopefully her therapist will help her see all this or be there when she recognizes the commitment she is getting into and keep working with her on her healing.

I understand how you feel about it, but as I said, your sister is going to have to work this all out, she is not going to listen to reason, she will just tune it out. I have been through this with my daughter, so I know how
hard it is.

OE