Thanks doglover, yes in a way I guess I can accept her distancing.
However, that doesnīt mean that itīs less hurtfull
Also, what i also talked about with my therapist, was that it would have been a lot less painfull if she could have just been honest about it
and have told me that she was doing it and why. I think that would have been easier to accept.
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Originally Posted by doglover1979
Maybe it is because of something she feels is unhealthy in your relationship and she is claiming her distance while she figures things out. Or maybe she needs a break from the family while she grows into being her own person.
We will never know, because she isn't here to explain her point of view.
It's a hard situation when a family member changes, I feel for you.
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