I don't think the man should make all the efforts either... but frankly, it felt like I was the one making all the efforts. I drove out there to see him because it was the only way we could meet (his work schedule didn't allow for time off). And in all fairness, I knew that. I'm just agreeing with you when you say that the effort should be mutual.
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Originally Posted by brainhi
"The next time the guy should make all that effort in the beginning, not you."....
I do not think that the man should make ALL the efforts.
If initially he wants to meet me bad enough ...and his car is in better shape than mine..I would want him to come see me. As we got to know each other in person..and I felt safe with him and safe with my car... I would meet him half way  |