Yes. I do hold back but I didn't originally. I could tell I bothered him with my venting about how I believed that he really didn't care much about me. I'm just a client. He's a therapist. Let's be real here. Blah blah blah....
I still think this but I don't come out and say it anymore. He is a human being and he's trying to do his job. For me, there just comes a point where I'm not sure it would help to divulge all my negative crap about him. What can he possibly say to make it better, you know? /:
He seems to want me to share it though so then I'm caught in a bind. I tell him and it annoys him after awhile or I keep it to myself and it becomes the elephant in the room. I'm not sure what the answer to this question is right now....
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