I personally do not think she HATES YOU, but she is upset with you or some thing in life right now...... try to look at her as a mini version of you and ponder why you your self might react as your daughter now is - and then maybe in the thinking you can come to a reason as to why and then talk to her about it.
.... some times females will engage another as to reconnect - to bond, but once again.

PLUS..... is any thing going on in your family or present life style that may be the reason behind her feeling of being left out all of a sudden? - I ask this, for from my POV - your daughter is crying out for attention and much needed love (from her side of the fence).

LoVe,
Rhapsody -