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Originally Posted by Bentay
So sorry your feeling so sad. I know how horrible it can be as I terminated on 15 Jan this year, I just couldn't bear it, all these questions kept coming up in my head, questions that I could no longer ask my lovely T as it was all over, done after two years, just like that!
In my case, I wrote to my T and asked him to stagger the ending & that I was finding it SO much harder then I expected. It was the best thing I ever did as it really helped me process the ending & enabled me to cope. I was still sad but after a while the pain eased.
Is it possible you could ask your T for a couple of more sessions spaced further apart ? Not sure if it would help but you seem to have some questions still - sorry I can't be of much help but it looks like your T really cared about you.
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Thanks so much Bentay, I remember when you terminated with your T.
How are you doing now? Unfortunately, I can't ask my T for more sessions. I'm graduating on Saturday, and she said that she won't see me anymore after that because I'll no longer be a student. I'm slightly considering calling her tomorrow though... but I'm not sure if she would consider that out of line or if she would say she doesn't do therapy over the phone. I am never sure about that kind of thing with her, and I really don't want to make it worse. I wish I had asked if I could call if I felt I needed to. But maybe I shouldn't bother. Maybe I need to deal with this on my own. I do think she really cared about me, so maybe I need to get myself to feel that without her reassurance. We did have our ending. She's coming to my graduation though, so I might get to see her. I hope I will. Then I will probably never see her again.
