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Originally Posted by nottrustin
I know you have been really nervous about today. I am sorry you are going through this. I wonder if what she meant about the letter is that right now you may think it is a great thing. However, down the road some you make wonder if she really meant what she said or only wrote the stuff she did to make you happy. What kind of person would write negative things in the letter? So she had to write good stuff so you might think later that she wrote the good stuff but didn't necessarily mean it...know what I mean.
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I definitely see what you mean. There is the potential for that to happen, and that is probably what she was thinking. Thank you for showing me this side of things. To play devil's advocate because I am a huge over-analyzer, a part of me worries that she didn't want to write something down on paper because it felt disingenuous on paper. As if it didn't feel true. So maybe the things she said out loud (in session with me) are not true concretely (what she feels privately). I'm probably just freaking out for nothing though.