send a post about middle age sexual difference and have had 5 reponses...one person who responed but doen't want to talk because it is too personal ,afraid i'll be too graffic...I don't understand ...am I in a situation that is uncommon???????? my wife whom I love,charish that I want to be with has told me that she is no longer interested ,in fact, literally chringes when I touch her in the convensional physical intimate way (sex)...says it isn't necessary anymore and I'm devastated and yet no one who has this situation man or women with either side of this wants to talk???????????? I just need to vent ...to try to understand what is happening...I don't want this to destroy my relationship with my wife but ist is and I feel like it's my fault