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Originally Posted by purplemystery
Sorry you're in so much pain. I know that with me, I have wanted to be a part of my T's real life, and since she treats me so incredibly and understands me, it's hard to remember that I am just a client. But my T still really cares about me, and it sounds like your T cares a lot about you too, or you wouldn't be this upset. I wanted my T to see me as a daughter, so I never asked her if she has kids. She probably does, but I couldn't stand it if I knew that. It sucks that you found out the thing that would make you upset. I hope you will be able to talk with her about this when she gets back and to spend some time processing it. In time, you may get to a place where it feels okay and you can accept it, even if it changes how you view your relationship with your T. Is it hurting you that she didn't tell you why she was going on vacation?
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Sorry i didn't include this in my first reply to you:
It also freaks me out to see Her as a normal person and not as Her Therapist self. And it makes me so sad to see Her so happy around this guy, Her eyes look so happy. i feel so selfish for feeling this way, i hate myself. i have to tell Her everything, i never lie to Her or hide secrets from Her. But it’s so far away. The next appointment is on Friday, May 30. We usually meet every Friday so today is the first Friday in months that I can’t see Her. Also what if She moves to a new town or something or a new state and changes where She works, married couples do that all the time.