Well, you are being very much manipulated and intimidated by him and his parents
You are also being abused and trust me, it will only get worse the longer you stay with him.
I fear for you.
This is YOUR life and you deserve to be happy in this lifetime. This is the year 2014, not the year 1814 or something like that. I'm trying to say, times have changed and women now have more power to choose what is right for themselves.

I understand your culture very well and know how men treat their women. I know it is difficult for women to take a stand. But, it can be done.

I do pray you free yourself from this man. For your sake as well as for the sake of any future children you may have. All of you would deserve a loving husband and father. Not one who is controlling or abusing.

Hugs