I haven't taken the time to read the other replies yet, sorry if I'm off-base or repetitive.

I spent all of the last 2 sessions talking about my negative feelings for my T and I am so, so glad I brought it up. I had nothing but loving feelings (openly) for months and then all of a sudden I got pissy.

I think we still have some to work through but I think ALL your feelings are word exploring. My T let me wallow in my misery for one whole session and then at the last minute refuted every single one of my insecurities . It sounds mean but he said he wanted me to really feel my emotions for one session and learn to accept them for what they are - angry feelings are no more different than love, joy, sadness, etc and all worthy of his respect.

If you could tell off your therapist in a one sentence, what might you say? Do you think you have the strength to face it? Are you worried (as in my case) he will think you're irritating and will get upset with you for even bringing up the relationship at all? I'm sorry if I'm only putting words in your mouth there...