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Old May 16, 2014, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted by RTerroni View Post
But if you don't want to get any advice from your Therapist than why are you going to Therapy in the first place?
In my opinion, and in what I have read, their job is not to give advice to anyone. Some of them try to do it anyway. I choose those who will listen when I tell them I don't want their advice. I am not there for a therapist to tell me what to do or what they think about what I do.

For example see
"4. I’m not supposed to give you advice, but I will anyway.

The first thing a young therapist in training learns is that psychotherapy is, Do not give advice to your clients. “If a person needs advice, they should talk to a friend,” one of my professors said in class. And yet, most therapists end up doling out advice as though their client’s lives depended upon it. Even cognitive-behavioral therapists will give advice, disguising it in the form of “homework” — “Why don’t you try keeping a journal of your irrational thoughts?” It’s a successful strategy for most to try, but it’s still advice."
http://psychcentral.com/blog/archive...wont-tell-you/
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