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Originally Posted by purplemystery
Thanks so much Bentay, I remember when you terminated with your T.  How are you doing now? Unfortunately, I can't ask my T for more sessions. I'm graduating on Saturday, and she said that she won't see me anymore after that because I'll no longer be a student. I'm slightly considering calling her tomorrow though... but I'm not sure if she would consider that out of line or if she would say she doesn't do therapy over the phone. I am never sure about that kind of thing with her, and I really don't want to make it worse. I wish I had asked if I could call if I felt I needed to. But maybe I shouldn't bother. Maybe I need to deal with this on my own. I do think she really cared about me, so maybe I need to get myself to feel that without her reassurance. We did have our ending. She's coming to my graduation though, so I might get to see her. I hope I will. Then I will probably never see her again.  |
I'm doing fine thank you for asking. I think about my T everyday tho but fondly & without the pain. Btw congrats for graduating, it's nice that you'll see your T again.
When I terminated, I was worried about contacting my T again for more sessions as it wasn't the usual thing to be doing. I mean I'd had my final session and that was that, but I felt a bit at sea, like I needed more time. I was also worried he would say no & how would I feel then ??? I would kick myself for being an idiot & for ruining the ending! Anyhoo what I'm trying to say is that, do you really think your T would think it a boundry crossing or out of line for calling ? I suppose it would depend on what you wanted to say. I'd consider it if I felt I could deal with any negative reaction but if you feel that would be too much then i wouldn't risk it.