maybe you guys are right I am sorry I am just having a very bad night I dont mean to come off so stubborn or disagreeable its just like everything was fine once well I thought it was fine and then this got dropped on me I wasnt prepared for this I wasnt ready for this it is just too much pressure!!! but I need to cut out the poor pitiful me act that isnt helping anythhing just making things worse for me.I just feel so stressed out like I am way over my threshold.