What about your family? Is there no one to be supportive of you and your welfare? This is a much bigger problem than OCD. This young man is seriously abusive. If you feel intimidated, you need to seek support and protection from somewhere. Your life will be miserable, if you don't find a way to escape from him. I'm sorry for what you are going through.

If your biggest fear is getting "scolded" by his family, then I don't quite understand you. Are you actually afraid of something worse happening?