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Originally Posted by Michanne
Part of relationship...professional, personal, romantic... Is revealing what you are ready to when you are ready. That's part of getting to know somebody in a healthy way. What you are doing is not just a violation of trust. You are cheating yourself out of discovery. Depending on her training and comfort level she may never share much of her personal life. That must be her choice not yours if you are to build a therapeutic relationship.
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I agree with this somewhat but not entirely, I do think it crosses the line to go through extraordinary lengths to find out where your Therapist lives, but I have found out other things about my Therapists in the past (such as where they grew up, what activities they like to take part in, among other things) and I don't see any problem doing that and I sometimes think that when you do that and drop in the information later on that it can actually enhance a Therapy relationship.