I see she has shared her feelings about sex. But what is her beliefs about sex. What is her opinion about sex for other people. What has she been taught about sex and it's role in a marriage? Do you see what I am getting at? I am trying to find the root or roots of why she feels the way she does.Is she on any medication that could inhibit her sexual desire? Your right this subject should not stop here. How much do to talk together? Please don't take me wrong, I am not trying to say you are to blame. But does she like your personality and find your body attractive? How is your behavior toward her now that she refuses to be intimate with you? usually a sex issue a lot of times is not a simple issue. I agree with you that sex in a relationship is important. And I too would be hurt to find that my partner no longer desired me.I would hate to be in your shoes its a very vulnerable place to be in.I feel that I can't go on without many questions asked. But ultimately it is up to you how much you want to share, so the ball is in your court now. Good luck.

Smilie