Interesting thread! I agree that bringing up the awkwardness of leaving last time would be a good way to start the next session.

My therapist always says time's up, and I pretty much just walk out at that point. I might make one more serious remark if I feel like it's essential to the session, but mostly I'll just say something innocuous about going back to work or the weather or something like that as I'm walking out. General pleasantries (would feel weird to walk out in total silence). It works. I guess I transition very quickly from serious & personal to pleasant & innocuous. I think I'm good with boundaries -- like very aware of them and careful not to cross.

I only pay my therapist once a month so it isn't really part of the session ritual. When I pay him I usually do so as I walk in the door so I don't forget (I make the check out before I come into the session).

Sidony