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Old May 17, 2014, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet View Post
I wonder if this is the case, becaues it certainly is the case with me. When I am asked why I am with my partner, I draw a blank. I think it's because I can't admit to myself and others that I need/want the L word.
i for one do not..maybe because i am BPD could be a large part of it.
idk, i just know i need love like oxygen...it's necessary for survival it feels like.
i require a lot of attention as well & am not afraid to "act out" to get it!

i know i should control it & i have been doing ok as of late ( i have had some help..hee hee, but that's ok it's working for me!)

so i know i need love & want to be loved..i know i need a lot of attention & i am ok with that..i know i need a lot of affection & am ok with that.

i believe society tries to program us men to not show our feelings, to not express our needs..that somehow if we show emotion we are "weak".

so yes i would say "most" males probably do...but not this one!
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