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Originally Posted by Bentay
I'm doing fine thank you for asking. I think about my T everyday tho but fondly & without the pain. Btw congrats for graduating, it's nice that you'll see your T again.
When I terminated, I was worried about contacting my T again for more sessions as it wasn't the usual thing to be doing. I mean I'd had my final session and that was that, but I felt a bit at sea, like I needed more time. I was also worried he would say no & how would I feel then ??? I would kick myself for being an idiot & for ruining the ending! Anyhoo what I'm trying to say is that, do you really think your T would think it a boundry crossing or out of line for calling ? I suppose it would depend on what you wanted to say. I'd consider it if I felt I could deal with any negative reaction but if you feel that would be too much then i wouldn't risk it.
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I'm glad to hear that you think about your T fondly! I'm sure that will be the same for me when I get through the hard initial stage. Thank you
I didn't end up seeing my T at graduation, except for a one-second glimpse. We were both looking for each other, but it was so crowded. I asked someone from health services if they knew where she was, and they said she had left.
What a bummer, it would have been so great to see her once more. I'll be disappointed for awhile, haha.
I didn't end up calling my T because she does have strict rules, so I thought it was a 50/50 on whether she would take the call. And if she did, she may not have wanted to. I couldn't handle that, so I didn't bother. But I'm glad that you were able to get the courage to call your T again and have a better ending. That must have been hard to decide!