Therapists handle these things really well. Pdocs can too. I wrote a rather pointed letter to my pdoc ealier on and was so petrified that I didn't take his calls. I had to stop by his office and he happened to come out and see me and took me back to his office without an appointment. I was so scared and mortified - would he be angry - would he refuse to have me as a client any more? He just talked to me about it and said I had been pretty right on and he appreciated the letter even though I said hard things. It was an opportunity for me to learn that he wouldn't send me away even when I did something 'wrong.'