Does sound like whatever you decide, isn't to be entered lightly. Of course, you didn't enter marriage for selfish reasons. Yet now, factoring future security does matter.
When going through couples counseling, did he make attempts to meet your unmet needs? After time passed, did you hold him accountable, when time and space brought it back to normal state of how things were. I'm guessing, that that's how it would be.


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