For that matter, people can be celibate even when married......

Being perceived as gay? I hope that's less of an issue than in the past. If not, then just date around.....And have fun on dates, not having to wonder about what will or will not happen in the back seat or the bedroom at the end of the night.

And choose someone else who is not expecting sex on the third date, but wants to be pickier.

30 year old virgin by choice? I say, "Congrats for not giving in to societal pressure and individual expectations."

Sex for one can be great, if folks don't mind my saying so. Your partner always know exactly what you want and when you want it!