I didn't want to know where my t lived when I still saw her in person, not because I'm some saint but because I know me, if I somehow found out where she lived I probably would have driven by her house and then been consumed with guilt over it. I do know her address now (now that she lives 1300 miles away!) because she gave it to me so I can mail her checks for my phone sessions. I was a little surprised when she gave it to me and said it was her home address!