This is to Skittles (I'm just using quick reply).

I believe that God would want you to be happy. I believe that He is a God of love and I believe that when good things happen in your life, God is behind that. My beliefs differ from some others on here, but I just thought I would share what I believe in answer to your question. I believe that love is good -- whether the people who are in love are married or not. My definition of being good is striving to never do anything to hurt another person and to have kindness and compassion and love in our hearts and actions. Those are the things that give me strength... and I believe that God wants us to be kind and full of love for one another.

I think it's important to look inside your heart and trust your own beliefs and your own relationship with God. None of us can speak for God. Faith is a very personal thing and I believe in trusting one's heart and inner voice. I believe that that's where God speaks to each of us. That's my own version of spirituality.