Man do I know what you mean about being attracted to "yummy" first.....and that always gets me no where. This guy, I'm gonna have to name him....lets see.....I'll call him Drew. So Drew, lol. I'd noticed him when he first came to town but I wasn't like ooooh HOT. I did think he was cute though. I was in a relationship at the time, and when I ended that relationship, I fixated on Sebastian (my name for the original crush). Then last night, I see Drew across the room, sitting comfortably in his chair and fanning himself, and I went Oh....thinking "hello" in my head. I introduced myself to him after the meeting and thats when he told me he also had a neurological disorder. We decided to hang together at the diner and talk about it, so we did. And then a group of us hung out later. Did I already say this? Lol....anyway. I know what you mean about being pragmatic and wanting to get an answer to the "does he like me" question. (Are you a Capricorn?) He hugged me goodbye last night, a very brief hug but it was so cozy. He seemed a little shy and uncomfortable, but I have to remember that he just moved here a couple months ago, and he had never hung out with us before. So, I'm hoping we'll hang out again soon, and that he'll come out of his shell a bit more. I've given up checking myspace; he'll be at work now. Time will tell!!! I hope your guy emails you back soon.....lets keep our fingers crossed for each other!